Donnerstag, 11. Januar 2018

Our First Myanmar Wedding

In November 2017, we had the chance to attend our first Myanmar wedding. It was amazing! Our colleague from work got married, and it was a very generous and big celebration. It is rather different from Swiss weddings. The pictures will show you how beautiful and different the wedding was.

The wedding celebration took place in the morning in a big ballroom and many guests were invited. All in all, it lastet for about 2 to 3 hours.

When you go to a Myanmar wedding, you should of course bring a present. This is very similar to Switzerland. However, at Myanmar weddings, you usually make a gift that can later be used in the household. Or you can donate money for the couple. Flo and I also searched for a suitable present. We found a present, but we couldn't find any wrapping paper. Where to buy wrapping paper in Yangon? We still don't know. So, we felt rather ashamed when we handed over the unwrapped gift... :-)
The present-desk is very organised. Several people take your delivery, write down your name, make sure the name is also visible ON the present, organise the donations, and make everything look very neat and tidy.


At this wedding, we could already see the couple (including the bride!) before the ceremony. This is usually not the case in Switzerland. But I was told that at other weddings, the guests can also not see the couple beforehand. So, maybe this depends on the wedding.
Here, the beautiful pair was already giving photo shootings. We also had the chance to eternalising ourselves together with them.


What a beautiful couple, no?!


Some more of our working colleagues attended the wedding and we could make a picture all together.



Of course, many more people also wanted to make photos with the couple, so we already went inside the ballroom to take a seat. What a huge celebration room!! In the back, you can see...
... the stage, where they got married later,
... a big screen to the right, where all the amazing pictures from the pre-wedding shooting were shown,
... and a music stage to the very left, where famous singers performed during the celebration.

By the way, pre-wedding shootings seem to be very common and important. The couple goes to a pre-wedding studio, gets nicely dressed, makes nice hairstyles, and applies the make-up. Then the shooting is conducted in several different environments. At the wedding ceremony, all these amazing pictures are shown to the guests.


Waiting for the people to come inside and the couple to begin the ceremony.


And finally they come. While the musicians are playing a traditional song, the bridesmaids, the couple, the groomsmen, and the parents solemnly proceed to the stage. (and the photographers feel the hecticness of their job!) :-)




The ceremony master leads the main persons through the steps of the ceremony. Of course we did not understand much of what he said, unfortunately. But at some point, we understood, that the parents were about to give their blessings to the couple, and the rings were exchanged. Kissing - as we do in Switzerland - is not part of the ceremony.


And then, the couple is officially presented as married, in front of all the witnesses in the room.


Now, the bride can cut the wedding cake and try the taste. However, the cake is not eaten immediately. We don't know what happened to the cake afterwards. I should definitely ask someone. :-)


At this point, the food for the guests gets served. We received some sweets, coffee, and tea. During this time, when the guests sit at their tables and eat, the couple walks from one table to the other in order to take pictures with as many guests as possible. Busy time for the photographers!




After asking some of our friends, we found out that Myanmar weddings can of course also be held in the afternoon. And it does not need to be a ballroom; it can also be a restaurant or a monastery. However, if it takes place in a monastery, the celebration has to be finished around lunch time the latest, because the monks are not allowed to eat heavy food after midday. Apparently, dancing and drinking alcohol is not very common. But there seem to be other regions in Myanmar, where dancing and drinking until nighttime is normal for a wedding.

Thank you very much, Tun Tun Thein and Win Thiri Aung, for sharing this special moment with us! We enjoyed it very much!


Dienstag, 26. Dezember 2017

Christmas 2017 in Myanmar



First of all, we would like to apologise for the long silence on our blog. We were quite busy the last couple of months. But we promise that we want to prove better manners again in 2018! So many stories of 2017 have not yet been told. We will try hard to tell them one by one within the next weeks and months. Here is a short story about how we spent Christmas 2017 in Myanmar.

This year, we spent Christmas partly in Myitkyina (Kachin State in the North of Myanmar, more will follow with another blog post) and partly at home in Yangon. 

In Switzerland, we usually start celebrating Christmas on 24 December and it often lasts until 26 December. In Myanmar, the Christian people celebrate Christmas only on 25 December. There are many Christians in Myitkyina. So, we saw many people preparing themselves and their churches on 24 for a big celebration on 25 December. On the 25th, the churches everywhere were full of people, during the whole day. Even the breakfast buffet at the hotel on 25th was almost empty because the staff wanted to rush off as soon as possible to their churches and families. :-) But let’s begin the story with the 24 December in the evening…

So, it was 24 December in the evening when we were still in Myitkina. We searched for a nice restaurant for eating a lovely dinner. We came across a very hip and newly opened restaurant and tried our luck there. It was nothing like Christmas atmosphere. But it was fun to be there.
Video…


After the amazing ambience, we returned to our hotel room and enjoyed several skype sessions with our loved ones at home in Switzerland. We could even join in some Christmas story telling by Lara’s grandmother Sünni, see the beautiful decorations of tables, Christmas trees, presents, dinners and so on. A short and beautiful moment of closeness with our families. On Christmas, it is sometimes a bit hard to be so far away from home.

 Joining Christmas at home through skype (pic taken by Christian L.-H.)

On 25 December in the morning, we started the day with some Christmas songs over youtube to compensate for the missing Christmas feeling (with songs like “All I Want For Christmas Is You” by Mariah Carey etc.), a bottle of beer (because we had to drink it before the flight or throw it away  - obviously no choice), and packing our bags for flying back to Yangon. But we still had some hours left before the flight. So, we again rented a motorbike and drove around for a while. Back at the hotel, the friendly staff offered us to make a Christmas shooting with their wonderful Christmas decoration. We very gladly accepted because we wanted to show our friends and families how a Christmas decoration in Myitkyina, Myanmar, looks like.


Left: Western Christmas tree at the hotel.   Right: Traditional Myanmar Christmas tree at the hotel.

Then we took the plane back to Yangon again in the evening of 25 December. We spent the rest of the evening at home, watching Lord Of The Rings II, extended edition, and enjoying a glass of red wine to celebrate a quiet Christmas evening.

At Myitkyina, the passengers can walk to the airplane without too many safety guidelines. That is quite convenient.

On 26 December, the washing of our cloths, the cleaning of the apartment, and the construction of Flo’s climbing wall kept us quite busy. But more will follow about the climbing wall another time. This deserves its own blog post. :-)

Very soon, many friends from Switzerland will arrive to Yangon. We will spend the next few days and New Year’s Eve with them. We’ll be around Yangon, Dawei, and Hpa-An. And we can’t wait to have them here!

We wish you a very nice rest of the year 2017 and a fantastic start into 2018!

Best, Lara and Flo

Samstag, 15. April 2017

Was wir an Wochenenden tun

Falls ihr euch fragt, was wir mit unserer Freizeit an den Wochenenden so anfangen, hier eine kleine Liste:

 1. Shwedagon Pagode besuchen

 2. Lichterfestival geniessen

3. Pommes mit chopsticks futtern

 4. Burmesische Freundinnen beim Stipendienantrag unterstützen

5. Slacklinen

 6. Freunden Yangon zeigen: Marianneke, Christoph, Samuel

 7. Freunden Yangon zeigen:Strehl, Sabi, Shirina, Michael

 8. Freunden Yangon zeigen: Annik & Tobi

 9. Freunden Yangon zeigen: Dina & Mettel

10. Freundinnen Yangon zeigen: Seri

11. Freunde mit zu Freunden nehmen: Remo, zu gast bei Lara's assistentin NweNwe (rechts)



 12. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An: Sicht vom Stamm-Guesthouse Soe Brothers 2

 13. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An: Klettern bei Bayin Nyi Cave

14. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An:  "7a" klettern

15. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An: Zuschauer

 16. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An: Fledermausgefüllte Sadan Cave

17. Outdoorwochenenden in Hpa-An: mit dem Boot durch die Höhlen

 18. Kochen mit Freundinnen

 19. Visa runs nach Thailand

 20. Beim Mingalabar-Festival im Meer von Smartphones schwimmen

 21. Früh-Yoga auf field mission

 22. In den Zoo gehen

 23. Visa runs nach Bangkok unternehmen

 24. Licht-/ Wassershow im people's park geniessen

 25. Sunset boat party feiern

26. Donnerstagabend-bouldern 

 27. Das Mittagessen bei der Arbeit mit Kollegen geniessen:  vlnr: Mokham, Will (AUS), Patrick (D), Paing Phyo, Ye Lin Tun, Khun San Aung, Kyaw Htet Aung

28. Dart als Verdauungsanreger nach dem Mittagessen

Sonntag, 9. April 2017

Inle Lake and train ride through the Shan mountains

After our first trip to the Inle lake region in november, we returned just after christmas 2016. This time we actually got to see the lake. After our arrival, we spent the first afternoon exploring Nyaung Shwe, the small town situated on the north end of Inle lake, with some hired bikes. Just before sunset we drove up to the Red Mountain Estate Vineyard & Winery, one of the few wineries in Myanmar, where we enjoyed a bottle of Myanmar Muscat while watching the sunset. The next day we booked a full day boat tour that would take us to all the touristy spots of Inle Lake. Apart from the machine-gun-like noise of the small motor of our longtail boat, it was a very nice day with a lot of interesting things to see and beatuiful sceneries to watch.

 View from the Red Mountain Estate Winery terrace

 Early and quite fresh start of our boat tour


 the famous "fisherman picture"..

 the actual fishermen fishing..

 Lara negociating in burmese in a silverware shop. Burmese speaking foreigners are always an attraction.


 floating gardens where they grow some sort of tomato


 floating village

 parking lot at the market

they know exactly how much weight can be put on their boat...

 Shwe Inn Dein Pagoda field, definitely shwe (=gold)!

 pagoda field from the nearby hill

 sunset over Inle lake

best sign ever. you can watch bird!

After our day on the Inle lake we spent another day in Nyaung Shwe and celebrated the new year at a restaurant near our hotel. They had invited a band from Yangon to play on new year's eve. The band played classic myanmar songs until they were all too drunk to play - at about 11pm. After this we were entertained by the karaoke sound coming from the neighbours place, where a few kids were having the best time and ruining their ears for the rest of their lives. A fun night!
The next day we went to the train station of Shwe Nyaung, the neighbour town, and booked a train ticket to go to Thazi, where we would stay for a night and then continue all the way down back to Yangon. After purchasing the two upper class tickets (2.5$ for the 10h ride) lara went to buy some coffee and snacks for the trip. And then we enjoyed a bumpy and slow train ride that took us all across the shan mountains. The 10 hours we spent on that train comprised amazing landscapes, lots of stops at small villages where the train would turn into a market, all sorts of differen flavours and foods all around - we loved it!!
 classic myanmar

 Lara asking for coffe in burmese...

 ...15 seconds later, everybody wants to talk to her :-)






 Train market

 Fresh snack!


 slowly entering more complex terrain

 crossing the steepest part of the railway line: few tunnels, but many railway switches to zigzag down the steep slopes.

 Reaching Thazi after sunset.